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<rss xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0"><channel><title>nicki clyne's blog - Latest Comments</title><link>http://nickiclyne.disqus.com/</link><description></description><atom:link href="https://nickiclyne.disqus.com/comments.rss" rel="self"></atom:link><language>en</language><lastBuildDate>Mon, 18 Jun 2012 02:47:05 -0000</lastBuildDate><item><title>Re: from awkward pose to awesome pose!</title><link>http://nickiclyne.com/blog/?p=1160#comment-560815799</link><description>&lt;p&gt;The little things are what keeps me going! Props to you for jumping out of the ordinary. I declare that this week I am going to try to take the uncertain path! &lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">peoplearebeautiful</dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 18 Jun 2012 02:47:05 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: OH MY GODS! THEY KILLED CALLY!</title><link>http://nickiclyne.com/blog/?p=990#comment-554146463</link><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m5auwkOCJs1qaknqno1_500.jpg" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank" title="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m5auwkOCJs1qaknqno1_500.jpg"&gt;http://24.media.tumblr.com/...&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Invisigoth841</dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 10 Jun 2012 23:45:54 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: talking about kevin, talking about life</title><link>http://nickiclyne.com/blog/?p=1154#comment-541509572</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Plan to restart the movie with the proper settings at some point?&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">JuanitaRojas</dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 29 May 2012 22:15:02 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: talking about kevin, talking about life</title><link>http://nickiclyne.com/blog/?p=1154#comment-541333714</link><description>&lt;p&gt;The technology your friend probably turned off was 3:2 pulldown. It's a technique where TVs and some Blu-ray/DVD players will try and 'fill-in' film frames. TVs show 30 or 60 frames per second. Most films are done with 24 frames per second. The TV is trying to match the film experience on the television using the 3:2 pulldown method, and sometimes it looks 'off'.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;The problem with 3:2 pulldown, and other technologies, is that TVs intend to 'fix' something that's actually artistic intention. Same with the color presets of the television. As a TV nerd, I get it; but so many people who aren't end up missing out on great experiences because of issues like this. In fact, a lot of people who own HDTVs don't even watch HD content, because they're used to browsing the SD channels on their cable box. Kinda makes me sad, to think people aren't seeing things as the filmmakers intended.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Ed Giardina</dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 29 May 2012 17:11:13 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: love in the time of villa carlotta</title><link>http://nickiclyne.com/blog/?p=1132#comment-473500856</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Not judging whether your experience in Villa Carlotta was paranormal or not, but modern medicine does offer a potential explanation...&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sleep_Paralysis" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank" title="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sleep_Paralysis"&gt;http://en.wikipedia.org/wik...&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;As usual, a very entertaining and insightful read. Keep up the good frequency of your blog entries as of late please!&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Casey J. Williams</dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 22 Mar 2012 07:14:22 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: pretty sure i won mysticon</title><link>http://nickiclyne.com/blog/?p=1112#comment-470522618</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Thanks for sharing. Love reading your blogs, yea to the hotel bar and locals for coming through in a pinch!!&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">A R</dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 20 Mar 2012 15:48:23 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: be nice to your _______ (self)</title><link>http://nickiclyne.com/blog/?p=1099#comment-468562257</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Wait until you look back when you are 45...&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Slam&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">s lamaina</dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 18 Mar 2012 17:26:01 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: about</title><link>http://nickiclyne.com/blog/?page_id=2#comment-460260562</link><description>&lt;p&gt;The best thing about you trying to describe yourself, Nicki.....is the fact that you were both able and unable to do it at the same time...&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;ok, Yoda-speak...i know.....&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;What I mean is, that you've summed up the basics, given the hoardes enough to go on, yet you maintain that you're still on your journey..&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;What a fantastic way to live, and you're right......writing an AutoBio is a humbling experience...and that humble flavour is present the whole time, rather than fading away to self-righteousness like many do after sitting at a keyboard for hours thinking about themselves and their experiences. Fakes....FAKES I tell you!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I must say, I'm quite jealous though. You see, I like to think I've got a reasonably good grasp of the English language, and a vocabulary to match it...BUT.. regardless of how I seem to arrange the masses of letters and symbols....I can NEVER...no matter HOW MANY obscure and rarely-used words I use........I can never seem to look clever like you can! FRAK YOU, lady!!! :) See, with me, it's second nature to use the words which come to me out of the blue....regardless of wether or not I think that people will understand them at all, let alone in-context, but I find myself dumbing down things which I know will be read by more than a few people, and it annoys me that you can do it so effortlessly! I just seem like a puffed up, toffee-nosed tryhard when I simply write what I am thinking!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;There's a lot more to be said in this regard, but I don't want to bore anyone! might have to go throw it on my blog :) The point is, you're a beautifully gifted writer.......&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;And I'm jealous as hell.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Tim&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Bris_man</dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 08 Mar 2012 21:28:15 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: be nice to your _______ (self)</title><link>http://nickiclyne.com/blog/?p=1099#comment-444987213</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Introspective memories and philosophical musings are like wine.  You need to age them properly or they are just sugary fruit juice.  I've never been in the public eye, so I can't comment on reading old articles about myself, but I know -- reading through my own old, old blog posts -- it's funny how you quickly and often run up against someone you barely recognize.&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Guest</dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 21 Feb 2012 13:37:09 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: be nice to your _______ (self)</title><link>http://nickiclyne.com/blog/?p=1099#comment-443792468</link><description>&lt;p&gt;I think you look like a chef. &lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Who </dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 19 Feb 2012 22:43:38 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: be nice to your _______ (self)</title><link>http://nickiclyne.com/blog/?p=1099#comment-442871157</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Why in the world would you take the time to post this?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I think it's about time to check with your doctor about your current level of anti-psychotics; it's clearly not working. &lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Benjamin Rush</dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 18 Feb 2012 12:34:24 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: be nice to your _______ (self)</title><link>http://nickiclyne.com/blog/?p=1099#comment-437930302</link><description>&lt;p&gt;I still can't believe that Cylon bitch threw you out the airlock.&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Knuckle Dragger</dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 13 Feb 2012 14:26:02 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: be nice to your _______ (self)</title><link>http://nickiclyne.com/blog/?p=1099#comment-434150938</link><description>&lt;p&gt;You can't find yourself because you are nothing more than a appearance who founds compassion for her ugliness. The weak and ridiculous innocent part. Of course beside all these tragedy, you love and it feels right. Your _________makes it feels right.....; It is only with the heart the one can see rightly, but you must create two to see what is essential is only a construction of the heartless. Then only then you will see the invisible means nothing.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Who </dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 09 Feb 2012 12:26:35 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: be nice to your _______ (self)</title><link>http://nickiclyne.com/blog/?p=1099#comment-434120362</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Famous people make me laugh, they are just like poloticians, they just smile for the camera, but inside, inside they are like everybody else. Trash. &lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">I'm </dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 09 Feb 2012 11:46:23 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: about</title><link>http://nickiclyne.com/blog/?page_id=2#comment-428375306</link><description>&lt;p&gt;You are the most beautiful person on BSG...next to Olmos.  :)  &lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Waz</dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 03 Feb 2012 01:41:29 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: resolutions are my friend and i love them</title><link>http://nickiclyne.com/blog/?p=1072#comment-420661323</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Good evening Mrs. Clyne.&lt;br&gt;I wanted to congratulate for his interpretation of Cally (which was my favorite character from the BG).&lt;br&gt;And then I wanted to ask if it was available at a small interview for my blog.&lt;br&gt;My name is Nicholas "Nick" Parisi and I am writing from Venice in Italy, I would be happy if he wants, nothing difficult just a little chat.&lt;br&gt;The blog is called Nocturne, I interviewed in the past few science fiction writer and an Italian horror film director, she would become the first actress interview.&lt;br&gt;I apologize for the inconvenience and I renew my compliments.&lt;br&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Nicola Nick Parisi</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 25 Jan 2012 11:54:33 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: OH MY GODS! THEY KILLED CALLY!</title><link>http://nickiclyne.com/blog/?p=990#comment-413197604</link><description>&lt;p&gt;bring back cally&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Carlos Espino</dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 17 Jan 2012 02:29:24 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: resolutions are my friend and i love them</title><link>http://nickiclyne.com/blog/?p=1072#comment-401317176</link><description>&lt;p&gt;I feel like i have a hunch growing in my back everytime my head touch my knees. &lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Igor</dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 05 Jan 2012 11:57:57 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: OH MY GODS! THEY KILLED CALLY!</title><link>http://nickiclyne.com/blog/?p=990#comment-398363808</link><description>&lt;p&gt;The back should really read, "You frackers!" Just to really bring it home. &lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Guest</dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 01 Jan 2012 14:35:40 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Shooting #Catfish in a Barrel</title><link>http://nickiclyne.com/blog/?p=1033#comment-377133949</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Yay new comments!&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Tabby Chapman</dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 01 Dec 2011 18:26:34 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Shooting #Catfish in a Barrel</title><link>http://nickiclyne.com/blog/?p=1033#comment-377122759</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Hi Nicki!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;So, I am sorry it took me so long to get over to your blog post here, and really, you had fascinating things to say.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;My experience of watching Catfish was interestingly similar to yours. I remember it very clearly because I watched catfish just weeks after I had my own catfish in my life reveal to me that nothing about that person was true, all was made up, including multiple online personas. That very REAL experience of a person who does these kinds of things also had a similar reaction. I remember feeling like "No, if this person lies all of the time, then how do I know that this isn't a lie and that she doesn't lie?" And then I'd wake myself to reality and remind myself that it's not math... two lies do not add up to truth in this way. So I was constantly swinging back and forth from, "No, humanity doesn't do this. It's not possible that I've been duped in this way." to "I've been duped." Weeks of this internal turmoil went by.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Then I saw catfish, and boy did that ever not help. I was sitting there thinking the same about this movie.... doubting my own experiences even MORE. "I KNOW this is possibly possible, but can this movie be for real?"&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I thought about the movie for weeks. I thought about my experiences for weeks. I felt disappointed that my view of humanity had been tainted. Kind of like... when you find out at an early age that there's no Santa.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Then I thought about Angela and her intentions and I thought about the person whom I had the experience with and that person's intentions, and I think about if and/or when I've ever generated those same feelings of loneliness and lack of control and to what extremes I've gone to to both make those feelings go away and to cover up what I've done to make those feelings go away. Oddly, it helps me restore some faith in humanity to do that.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;But, not enough. I still sometimes see an old face online here and there, maybe it's someone who sounded familiar in tone to that person, or maybe someone who was really involved in my life, online, and they've all disappeared, and I wonder if I was duped with those people as well. I don't know how to get rid of those paranoid spectacles on my experience of the world. It doesn't seem helpful. More helpful would be to examine my present and future relationships with more care and scrutiny and judgement, but it's hard not to consider all relationships from the past. It's just not getting me anywhere.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;And with that, I say goodbye for the day. :)&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;xoxo&lt;br&gt;Tabby&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Tabby Chapman</dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 01 Dec 2011 18:05:45 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Shooting #Catfish in a Barrel</title><link>http://nickiclyne.com/blog/?p=1033#comment-377122758</link><description>&lt;p&gt;@Shadow master&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Does it matter if she's really Nicki, so long as she looks, swims, and quacks â err, speaks, acts, and writes blog posts â like a Nicki? Don't you interact with her for the content of your interactions, rather than any other particularity of Nicki's identity?&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Ethan B.</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 09 Nov 2011 04:29:31 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Shooting #Catfish in a Barrel</title><link>http://nickiclyne.com/blog/?p=1033#comment-377122762</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Hey Nicki,&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I've been interested in getting more involved with your blog, and, although I haven't seen Catfish, I do have some fairly well-formed opinions on your general ideas here. In short, if the literal truth of our stories mattered, we wouldn't just be upset that Cally's husband had been a Cylon from the start âÂ we'd be upset that "Cally" herself was only some 21st-century woman from the planet Earth. We'd shout accusingly, "How can Nicki Clyne know what it's like to be in search of a home, when she's got all the comforts and amenities of a stable life waiting for her every evening?" So much of art is just magic tricks and lies, but we go to the show anyway, because the wonder and emotions that it produces are real. We can *feel* Cally's hope and pain and frustration, and we know that these experiences are "real" because they help us to understand our own emotions, our own sense of betrayal when people like Jt Leroy turn out not to be who we thought.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;We look to art â and to interpersonal communication in general âÂ to help us capture "the human experience." When it can do that, the literal, behind-the-scenes details stop mattering. In fact, just as literal translations between languages often miss the idioms and nuance, I'd venture to say that art, as literal documentary, often loses the essence of its subject. Sometimes, lies are needed to spell a deeper truth.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;However, I think it's also important to realize that, the more creative liberties we allow our art, the greater the responsibilities we assume as artists. When we're not being true to fact, we must be all the more true to ourselves, all the more honest in our shaping of perception. Some will say that art can't be "wrong," but it can certainly be false and disingenuous, and it can mislead just as well as it can inform. We each construct our sense of reality out of what other people tell us. Sometimes, it resonates within, and we know it to be true in the only sense that matters. Other times, it rings hollow, and we reject it outright. But, yet other times, it is simply new, and we do not know. We allow it to extend our model of reality, and we like to believe that we are the more worldly for it. It is during these times that storytellers are to be held most accountable, and that audiences, viewers, and readers are most vulnerable.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;The simple fact is that not every individual *can* offer honest insight into every facet of human existence, and often we should know better than to try. Does James Frey understand what it is to struggle with substance abuse and despair? Ostensibly so: he managed to capture something that you could make sense of. But does a heterosexual male writing about sexuality under a female pseudonym actually advance the cause of truth in any way? Can an affluent American reporter really write a first-hand account of living with scarcity in the developing world? Probably not.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;In the end, it's difficult to be a discerning consumer of emotional insight, because the usual means of scientific verification tend not to mean so much. Despite his cybernetic underpinnings, Galen Tyrol does have something to tell us about love and duty and fatherhood âand actress Nicki Clyne has something to tell us about a mechanic named Cally. I think that all we can do is keep our ears tuned to the stories that speak to us, and gradually weave them into something greater, a tapestry more rich and robust than any story or experience could stand to be on its own.&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Ethan B.</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 09 Nov 2011 04:16:58 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Shooting #Catfish in a Barrel</title><link>http://nickiclyne.com/blog/?p=1033#comment-377122755</link><description>&lt;p&gt;If there is not truth and it does matter then you arent Nicki CLyne, you are just another person.&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Shadow master</dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 06 Nov 2011 05:52:52 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Shooting #Catfish in a Barrel</title><link>http://nickiclyne.com/blog/?p=1033#comment-377122761</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Maybe the above comment should be marked for spoilers?&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Jay C</dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 05 Nov 2011 17:59:51 -0000</pubDate></item></channel></rss>